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How should I break up with my girlfriend?

§ecret - 2008-12-15 13:13:26 - Singles Dating

Im not really interested anymore and I dont want to crush her, because be are friends. She'll probably go on and on about how I like her friend-which i dont- but i guess im not as intersested in her as before, how should i break up with her nicely? Got any ideas?

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Well make it pretty obvious first so she can brace herself. Text her and be like 'Can I come over I need to talk to you about something.' Then go to hers (so it's less public and she can get over it) , tell her you just want to be friends, then give her a hug, and leave her to cry it out. Text her when you leave 'I hope you can understand me, I really like her, I just think we're growing apart. Are you okay?' This way it shows you care, and kind of explains this. Don't blame it on you as she'll see it as an excuse, and don't blame it on her, obviously.

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just tell her you want to be friends and you want some time alone dude

just say, look, its not you, but i just want to be friends, we can still hangout and stuff, but i just need a break. good luck help me? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ah5er8ZI4H.wzLsQC5ZeX1Dsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081215120750AABgGHx

Let her down slowly, tell her that you don't feel the same way about her. Talk to her in person about, do not brake up with a text or the phone!

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Okay just tell her that you just want to be friends, dont make up excuses or some bullshit story just tell her the 100% truth. It may hurt but if you are honest with her she will forgive you... and oh yes do not break up with her in any other way other than in person, text or phone break-ups are bull **** and piss ppl off

Well make it pretty obvious first so she can brace herself. Text her and be like 'Can I come over I need to talk to you about something.' Then go to hers (so it's less public and she can get over it) , tell her you just want to be friends, then give her a hug, and leave her to cry it out. Text her when you leave 'I hope you can understand me, I really like her, I just think we're growing apart. Are you okay?' This way it shows you care, and kind of explains this. Don't blame it on you as she'll see it as an excuse, and don't blame it on her, obviously.

Well you gonna hurt her either way. But tell her in person or in person and a letter. Break ups will never be awesome lol. Just do it quickly, the longer you wait the worse it gets. ^^

If you're going to break up with her, do it in person. It might be harder to do but it should turn out better. Be really nice to her and say how you think it's best that you break up, and that you still like her as a friend. Ask if you can still be mates as well, and for the thing about liking her friend, you could maybe promise her that you don't or something like that. Try to be supportive and never get mad at her even if she might say nasty things to you.Good luck mate =)

Do it in PERSON. that's really important and so many people don't do that.. and just say you care for her but just as a friend and you know she will be upset but you hope that you will be able to remain friends.

Make a really cute valentine heart with your and her picture in it. Write LOVE in big bold letters, then start to hand it to her. Make sure that she can see all the hard and loving work you put into it, and then right before she grabs it pull it away from her and rip it in half splitting your two pictures apart. Drop the halves on the floor and walk away. This will not be nice and would crush her by the way. :P There isn't a "nice" way to break up with, your best bet is to simply sit her down and be honest with her. It will still hurt her but it is the best path to go down.

Tell Her Straight... Whichever way you tell her she is going to be hurt so... Make sure you don't babble and definitely DON'T say "It's not you its me"....... Just say exactly what you just said about wanting to be friends. And Don't Say "We Need To Talk" As She Will Know Straight Away. Good Luck

talk to her about. tell her the truth- the feeling is gone and it better to move on.